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By: Valerie Ling
I’ve spoken at two great events recently. The questions put to me on both days have been thought provoking, and I’d like to unpack one in particular. Continue reading “Self Care Helps Us Stay the Course”
By: Steff Willis
Established by the late Reverend Sir Alan Walker, the former Superintendent of Wesley Mission, Lifeline exists to ensure no one faces their darkest moments alone. Continue reading “Lifeline Celebrates 60 Years of Saving Lives”
By: Katelyn Tasker
Carers Australia defines carers as ‘people who provide unpaid care and support to family members and friends who have a disability, mental illness, chronic condition, terminal illness, an alcohol or other drug issue or who are frail aged’. Continue reading “Carer Fatigue and Burnout: What Is and What To Do”
By: Valerie Ling
A couple of years ago I attended a conference about support for first responders. What really stood out to me was the focus on creating a culture where people check in on one another. Continue reading “Check In With Others to Show Your Support”
You close your eyes on December 31st and wake up on January 1st and it’s the ultimate reset. Continue reading “New Year, Old Me – Can Anyone Relate?”
By: Valerie Ling
I structured my day a little differently today: I designed my best day and acted accordingly.
A little bit of background….
Preventing burnout is an ongoing exercise. You do not really “land” in no burnout zone. The ingredients for burnout is one part a personality that cares. Cares too much at times. This is matched by a drive that does not switch off.
As you grow as a person, as you encounter more things in your life your view of what you “need” to do changes.
My journalling today started with the words: ” I care, which quickly translates to responsibility”
I care about a lot of things. Mainly things that impact people. Thing is so many things impact people. Soon without realising it I have absorbed a range of issues and ideas that I assume are my responsibility to work on.
In my journalling today, I shifted to ask myself, how could I anchor my day today to be the best day of not being responsible, just being present and purposeful. So it went like this, some areas for the day with some key anchors:
Reflect: My daily devotions
Learn: Do a little bit of a small course I have signed up on the Entrepreneurial process
Create: Catching up some new music I have been listening to. It is creative because they are instruments I don’t usually listen to
Connect: Spending time with some friends (actually outside, we read and journaled and chatted)
Productive: Working on my Masters
This did not include everything else that happens in my day, but it was a great way to just dream about the best day to have, and then have these small anchors and move through them. You know what? It was a great day.
Perhaps you could try planning your day in similar way, and see what a difference it might make.
Article supplied with thanks to Valerie Ling.
About the Author: Valerie Ling is a clinical psychologist and consultant with The Centre for Effective Living (a psychology and mental health practice) and The Centre for Effective Serving (a workplace wellbeing consultancy).
Feature image: Photo by Gabrielle Henderson on Unsplash
By: The Centre for Effective Living
Lean bodies, taut muscles, chiselled noses and waif bodies. We cannot escape these images around us. Continue reading “Body Image: When It Becomes an Issue”
By: Nicky Becker
There is a myth that childhood is always carefree and fun – and while we hope that the majority of childhood is like that, children also face challenges that will impact their mental health. Continue reading “How Kids Helpline is Normalising ‘Help Seeking’ in Schools”
By: Monica Jacob
Telling people I work as a psychologist is often followed by expressions of surprise and curiosity: “So what exactly do you do with your clients? Do you just talk and solve their problems?” Continue reading “What Therapy is Like…And What It’s Not”
By: Valerie Ling
In her book “Option B: Facing Adversity, Building Resilience, and Finding Joy” Sheryl Sandberg, the COO of Facebook, tells the heart breaking story of suddenly losing her husband. Continue reading “Become More Flexible – By Having an ‘Option B’”